How do you deal with divorce?

Divorce was devastating to me. It was worse than a death. With a death there is closure. With the divorce I went over and over in my head what did I do wrong? What could I have done differently? He cheated on me and with my then best friend. That was twice the heartbreak. All I can say is time heals all wounds. It took a while but I did survive. And I became stronger for it.